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Characteristics of the control freak

June 26, 2005

Ever wonder who is and isn't a control freak? Maybe you see yourself here.

Described by most people as picky and critical, as well as controlling.

Loves order and established routines. Don't even think about touching things on his or her desk. Watch out if his or her plans have to be rearranged.

Always needs to be right.

Tells you who you are and what you think.

Implies that you're wrong or inadequate when you don't agree.

Feels attacked when questioned.

Doesn't seem to really see or hear you.

Would rather give orders than take them.

Hangs onto a project forever because he or she wants it to be perfect.

His or her controlling ways make other people feel anxious, if not alienated.

Snoops around where he or she doesn't belong.

Feels most comfortable when in charge.

Winning an argument is more important than finding the best solution.

Not getting what he or she wants is met with anger, pouting or the silent treatment.

Well guess what, You can change but it will require considerable effort and take time.

Good luck or Good-Bye.

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